Cleavage Shots

Every so often, I do a search on the women in my area, just to see what men are looking at besides me. This time around has involved two things: breasts and boobs. Every single default picture that wasn't a typical headshot, involved a direct-but-trying-to-act-like-it's-not shot of the woman's cleavage.

I did say breasts and boobs. They're two different things. Breasts are a woman's chest that's firm and naturally perky. Boobs are what I call "fat boobs" (having boobs because your overweight), or fake silicon things made in a factory and implanted in some alien-like procedure to add back strain to millions of women everywhere.

Now, it doesn't matter if you have either type of chest, ladies - you shouldn't be posting it for the world to see. Natural cleavage (like a low cut shirt, not a severely low cut, but like a V-neck sweater, or a chest that's so large it can't help but have cleavage no matter what's put on it) is fine. Purposely pushing your boobs together and shoving them into center focus is, well, depressing. It makes me pity these types of women.

Personally, if a guy is TRULY interested in you, especially on an internet dating website, a few headshots and a few body shots are enough. Smiling, wearing your hair down, showing your interests, etc. and accentuating your best qualities (small waistline: fitted shirt, great eyes: close headshot) in a tasteful way lead to men who are interested in your natural beauty and your personality.

Here's why: A guy looking for ass keeps his eyes peeled for profiles that are sexual in nature. So if your photos scream dirty whore slut, than you're going to get messages flooded with lines like, "Let's hook up." or "Do you have a webcam?". A guy looking at a profile with tastefully done photos will see a natural beauty, and then read the profile for your personality.

If he just clicks through because your photos don't show enough, then he isn't something you want to attract in the first place. Unless you are just looking for a hook up rather than a long term relationship. Then, disregard this whole blog and continue whoring it up on those dating sites.

Otherwise, please - make the guys work a little too for your attention. It's a two way street, but if you put it all out there right in the beginning, what does he have to vy for?