Sunday, May 8, 2011

He gets points for being creative.

So, Casual Kiss is always good for interesting messages. I got one the other day from a guy whose profile says he's a 25-year old female from Kampong Sungei Blati, Malaysia. He seemed like the usual sweet, overly poetic guys I usually get from other countries, but then he sent me this.

"well if you dont mine i have lost some 1 that mean so much in my life i lost her wen i was born coz we are together in the presence of god and we choose different location she choose to be whit and i choose to be black immidiately i comes out of my mothers womb i started imagin that when would i get this beautiful girl again , then i take it as my destiny may be we can never meet gain but now i realise that here she is now i found her and i will never let her go pls give me chance in your heart let me dwell in your heart i want to be the only 1 you will be seeing?"

Uh, well. Wow. That's a new one.

I also got one from an 18-year old guy from Canada that said he was a General in the "USA army" who is currently in Afghanistan. Huh, odd. I didn't think the Army promoted that quickly. Or, ya know, enlisted Canadian citizens. So I called him on it and he just sent me back a sad face.

Then, I get a message from a 25-year old guy from Canada that simply says "i want ur big ass on my face." Really? On what planet is it okay for that to be the first thing you ever say to a person? Oh, dumb question. Clearly Uranus. *facepalm*


But, on a more serious note, I thought I should talk about something a lot of guys have brought up to me. It's no secret that the dating world in general is a lot easier for women than for guys. On dating sites in particular, it tends to work out that guys take the time to send out messages to tons of women, and women typically just respond to whatever they get, if they feel like it. If a girl is not interested in a guy, most of the time she'll just ignore his message completely. What I find interesting is that from my experience, it's not just messages from guys they'll ignore (I'm excluding myself since I make it a policy to answer EVERY message I get, regardless of content). I've been messaging bisexual girls pretty frequently lately, and I don't get responses from even half. I kind of feel like I should start asking around and see if I can't get some insight on this, since I don't even understand it myself. I personally think it's sort of rude.

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